Breed Sex Part 1 Follow up

Point, Counterpoint.

It's been pointed out to me that there are several points of view to Breed Sex / Pregnancy Risk sex that I haven't brought forward.

First of all, I don't want to vilify a particular community or to call out any individuals.  Secondly, I have a veritable interest in the topic and that's how I met my boyfriend. *Shock* *Revelation* I know. Although, ironically, the boyfriend and I haven't had 'breed sex.' We will at some point, I'm sure.

Third, I'd like to think of myself as a sexual anthropologist; dissecting the things that fascinate me.

In fairness, I am presenting this criticism and alternative points of view of my original entry, Breed Sex: They Want to Cum in You

Point 1 by a member of a 'breed sex' community:

See, I came away from a different perspective. She discusses what "breed sex" is (basically, the "fetish" isn't just for sex, but the specifics of getting pregnant or impregnating your partner).

The four types she discusses are something of a stereotype, but lets be honest: it's not far off the mark. There are some guys who will donate sperm for the sake of helping others, some who are desperate, some who are more dominant and like to seduce other men's girlfriends/wifes/whatever, and others who enjoy a woman's swollen belly.

Of course, you can have men (or women) who are all those things, or multiples of those things, or only like that with someone they really love, or enjoy the role play, etc. Perhaps one failing of the article was that she doesn't mention how much of this perspective is simply a fetish, how much is role playing, how much is reality.

That said, I don't think she's really out to say "OMG people thinking baby making sex is hot those evil perverts", but just an exploration into the kinds of people. Let's face it - women on this (or any other) impregnation forum can get jumped on a bit (hence moderators), and usually the most annoying are also the most vocal.

I'd keep an eye on it, but perhaps if someone wants to write her a nice email explaining our view - not in an accusing way, but showing the other points that I did above, that might be helpful to remove any stigma or bad stereotyping that all impregnation lovers are just irresponsible baby makers.

Of course, this is just my opinion, so feel free to disagree.

Point 2 by another member of a 'breed sex' community

There are always going to be some but nevermind. Just incase I removed my picture though as I am slightly uncomfortable but all in all I think the blog is a little accusing. Ah well.

Point 3 by another member of a 'breed sex' community

The witch hunt seems to be a two-way street here. Fine, she posed as a member on this site for little more than to do research for another site. Incidents like that happen all the time. Okay...so we've called her out and have effectively gathered the fire wood to "burn her at the stake" as someone has implied. But she's also raked various members over the proverbial coals here as well; casting the men in a rather negative light. Her biases in her accounts are unabashedly skewed toward looking down on the people here. If she is indeed doing a bit of investigative reporting on impregnation sex, then objective journalism was out the window. Her writing style is more of an editorial with a personal investment in "revealing us" to the world...or at least to those in London, England.

...and next week, we get to read all about the porn stars, skanks, whores, and misanthropes who give pure womanhood such a bad name. Those horrible women who want to be bred by the misguided, sexually aggressive, and socially mal-aligned males who stalk this site.

Technically, what she did (or is still in the process of doing, as the case may be) is not trolling, nor is it against any of our site's policies. However, if she causes an influx of "anti-pregnant sex" zealots on the site for the sole purpose of trying to shut us down because we don't share their same world view, then we moderators can start busting some heads with the Ban Hammer. A pain in the ass to do? Of course... But we mods consider it a necessary evil. Everyone's entitled to their own opinions...that's what makes freedom of speech (and freedom of the press) such a wonderful thing. Like the saying goes, "opinions are like assholes...everyone's got one, and not all of them are pretty."

However...

The irony of her article (at least about the males) is that she makes valid points on some fronts. She isn't saying anything that's false or sensationalistic. Some men can be exactly as she described...extremely aggressive, narcissistic, and have very little regard for what happens AFTER the pregnancy phase. But here's a newsflash, Anjelika...you'll find these kind of men anywhere, not just here on Impregnorium. But she also unfairly seems to lump the men who genuinely want to be the male counterpart of a surrogate (those who want to provide sperm for couples who can't conceive) right along with the others. This, I do not agree with. Like my opinion matters in any way, shape or form to her, right? On a side note, I can't wait to read her take on me and other women here in Part II of her discertation.

All of us have different core values, and while I do agree with her on the "fuck 'em and forget 'em" aspect nor will I comment on the "abortion fetish" issue either, I don't agree with the seeming generalization that practically everyone on here is in some way deviant. Biased much? If she has found that our little corner of the internet isn't her cup of tea, then I wholeheartedly invite her to not let the door hit her in the rear on her way out. No one is holding a gun to her head to continue visiting this site. And oddly, I feel that since she's done with her "research" on here, we may not see much of her again.

Now, to her credit, she did not once call this site by name, nor has she blatantly named anyone on here, by real name, username or otherwise. For that, she's earned points in my book...again like it would matter to her. I feel that she did act responsibly and somewhat respectfully in that regard. She could very well have named names, posted direct links to us, and basically became our worst nightmare in the form of an "Anti" agenda. But oddly, I don't feel that that was what she had in mind. She simply had a story to tell, albet from her own point of view.

Let this play itself out...and if it spills back over onto this site, we moderators will handle it behind the scenes quietly and efficiently.

Points taken.  Agreeing or opposing points of view welcome.

Breed Sex Part 1: They Want to Cum in You.

Breed Sex Part 1: They Want to Cum in You.
Meet the Men Who Want to Knock You up

“Like a good submissive little breeding slut I spread my legs wide and pulled my ass up off the bed so he could plough me hard and deep. I've never been one of those girls that can have multiple orgasms - in fact I'm often lucky if I have an orgasm at all. However, with this breeding I not only came but I came FIVE times.

“He had me up on all fours, his cock slamming into my cervix with each stroke, his cock bare, my pussy fertile, and I couldn't help myself I came as he pounded a huge load of warm sperm into my very eager womb. His cock head was nesting right up against my cervix and I could feel every squirt, every throb, and every little tremor as he pumped me full.

“He kept his cock wedged into my pussy for a few moments - pushing it in slightly and making sure his cum was nice and deep. As his cock slipped out of me, a trail of warm cum dripped down my thighs; I lay on the bed knowing it was possible he had just impregnated me.” – Breeding Female

Of all the subjects within sexuality that I’ve researched; Breed sex AKA Pregnancy Risk Sex has to be the single most fascinating yet morally dubious of them all. There are so many facets to this topic that one article cannot do it justice. This is the first part of a three-part series.

What is Breed Sex?
It’s just sex. It’s heterosexual sex without contraception. It’s having sex for the purpose of procreation. It’s about purposely not using contraception so that the possibility of getting pregnant remains. No contraception is ever used. Pulling out is not an option.

Ironically, Pregnancy Risk Sex isn’t about having children. It’s not about raising children. The child-rearing part is the very last concern. Pregnancy Risk Sex is about using the risk of pregnancy to heighten the sexual experience.

As with most fetishes, the internet caters for large community of like-minded people. There are at least a half of dozen breed sex forums on the web as well as various posts on Craig’s List. For my research I went undercover in the community as a woman wanting to try out breed sex.

Within the breed sex community when a woman announces that she’s ready to ‘breed’ she receives a substantial amount of male attention. Certainly was the case with me. After posting my, “London girl wants breed sex” ad I had received nearly 100 messages. It was bizarre to think that there were that many men in the world who want to knock me up. It made me think that if I legitimately wanted to have a baby on my own I’d never have to go to a sperm bank.
To say the least I received some interesting replies from men wanting to make babies with me.

“I'm a man who loves and craves to fill a pussy full with cum so you’re leaking my cream for days… I'd be always trying to knock u up and not just once. The joy is in sticking around not running off.”
– Breeding Man in Newcastle, UK

“I read your profile, my favourite things is to cum as deep as possible in a pussy, never want to pull out or use birth control but it’s difficult to find women who are into the same risky fun as me. I noticed your post as well, what arrangements are you looking for from the guy in question? Interracial breeding has always been a fantasy of mine also.”
- Breeding Man in Guilford, UK

“Black goddesses preg by white studs is SEXY!! Black goddesses have the natural DNA to make their breasts HUGE, to just be so amazingly sexy when preg!!! You should hit me up.”
- Breeding Man in Germany

Who’s into it?
You’ll find that this is a fetish that both men and women actively engage in. Not surprisingly there are far more men in the scene than women. Generally, the men can be divided into four categories: The Altruists, the Clockbeaters, the Egotists and the Bump lovers.

The Altruists.
These are probably the most unselfish of men from the breed sex community. They derive their joy from giving the gift of life to childless couples or individuals. Their desire to bring kids into the world is so strong that they are willing to forgo the old fashion way of baby making and go for artificial insemination. What’s good about these men? Their hearts are in the right place. What’s not good? Essentially they are low rent sperm donors. Don’t expect any further relationship once the baby is born.

The Clockbeaters.
These guys so hastily want to have kids. I suspect this is because they feel that their biological clocks are running out soon. They are willing to traverse oceans and continents and even relocate in order to find a woman to do this wait. An unfortunate thing about these men is that they come off as wholly desperate. Women can smell desperation a mile away and believe me it’s a foul stench. These guys want kids so badly that they would be willing to have breed sex with any woman. It’s hard to feel special when one of these guys chat you up. What’s good about these guys? They often want long-term relationships. They tend to be the marrying kind. What’s bad about them? All the Clockbeaters I spoke with wanted at least six kids. Part of their impregnation fantasy is to keep the woman in a constant state of pregnancy, churning out one kid after another.

The Egotists
My least favourite of the bunch, the egotists believe that their “seed” is all powerful and can easily knock up any woman. One egotist bragged to me, “I bred a 42 year woman in two months!” My very unscientific diagnosis is that these guys’ egos are way out of control. The way they view the world is through a prism of self-delusion and self-centredness. These men tend to be quite dominant. They view any woman who takes their cum as the ultimate submissive. These men want to get as many women pregnant as possible. Some of these men enjoy only impregnating other men’s wives (without the husband knowing). Some of these men actively sabotage birth control.

Some birth control sabotage tips I was given:

1. Putting baby oil on a latex condom.
2. Puncturing the condom. Apparently you need to put many holes in the condom, not just one.
3. Slipping antibiotics into the girl’s drink; as that makes her pill less effective/ inactive.

What’s good about these men: They are horny as hell. They have extremely high sex drives. What’s bad about them? Where do I start? These guys definitely epitomise “Love ‘em and leave ‘em.”

The Bump Lovers
These men have a fetish for pregnant women. They love the idea of planting their “seed” and watching the woman’s stomach grow and grow. They also fantasise about sucking the milk from a woman’s tit.

“I WANNA PUT A BABY INSIDE YOU
I've always found pregnant women attractive, and fantasized about putting a baby inside a willing partner.

I wanna start by giving you a back massage, then work my way down, then slowly take off your little panties and cuddle up behind you with the tip of my dick in at the opening of you vagina, and I'm going to massage your naughty parts and talk dirty until you beg me to put it in you.

Then I'm going to slip it all the way in so the tip of my penis is touching your uterus, and then I'm going to get on top and start going wild on you, until you start to orgasm, then I'm going to press my body close to yours with my dick in as far as it can go and shoot my load all over your inside.”
– Breeding Male USA

Are you ready to try Breed Sex?
Risk is inherent in breed sex, however, risk exposes you to the plight of sexually transmitted diseases. Having breed sex is an easy way to contract with HIV, Chlamydia, Herpes or most other STDs. Many people in the breed sex community are aware of the risk and have no problem getting themselves tested. Even if you do get the ‘all clear’ the real question is, are you ready to dad or a mum? Ultimately, is it worth the risk?

End part 1.

Next week Breed Sex Part 2: Meet the Cum Whores who want Your Baby