Thanks for your photograph.
I don't speak for all women, just myself so it's always wise to get a second opinion.
As I have
previously stated The way I see things is that I generally put people in one of three categories:
Category 1: You're fuckable.
Category 2: You're not fuckable.
Category 3: I haven't met you.
At the risk of repeating myself, being fuckable more or less indicates that in the right circumstances I'd fuck you. For instance, lets say you're my buddy or even someone I've met recently. You're in a relationship. Your woman is out of town. We're both drunk. We're at dinner. There's lots of flirting. Yes, you'd be totally fuckable. I'd probably eat my dinner thinking, "I so want to fuck you." Most likely, however, I wouldn't follow up on it. There are a myriad of reasons for me not wanting to follow up. Those reasons range from fear of rejection to guilt about possibly ruining a relationship, etc.
So even if my loins were on fire AND we were both outrageously flirting with each other AND I was drunk, I wouldn't make a move or give you any indication that I'm interested unless... you make the first move. I know, that's quite bad of me. Well, I never claimed to be Miss Moral. Although I do like the idea of being Miss Oral ;-)
If you're in category 2, there is no such circumstance that could ever happen where I'd want to fuck you. Generally, people in this category include, 95% of my women friends, guy friends I've had for 10 years or more, all of my family, most of my gay male friends. In addition, this includes guys that I do not find sexually attractive.
Having looked at your photo you fall into category #2. Don't worry, I know that the photo posted here isn't really you. The readers here need a visual picture, so I went through an archive of photos and picked a shot that vaguely resembles you. Apologies if I got it horribly wrong. You look like an average-looking Korean guy. This doesn't do it for me personally, but I'm sure there are girls out there that would want you.
Without getting to know your personality, it's difficult to dissect what is going on. There are so many different questions I have:
- What sort of women do you want?
- What's your type?
- Do you want just sex?
- Are you looking for a relationship?
- Are you a virgin?
- Are you going on dates regularly?
- How far do you get with women before they turn you down for sex?
- Are you shy?
- Are you a confident guy?
- Are you happy with your looks or are you looking to improve?
- Do you own property?
- Are you rich?
- Do you still live with your parents?
- What sort of job do you have?
- Do you have a car?
I don't know the answers to all of these questions but to give you a thorough answer I would really need to know this.
To add to my previous theory. If you're a guy in category 1, fuckable, then mentally, I put you into 3 subcategories:
Subcategory 1: Marriage Material
Subcategory 2: Date / meal ticket / fuckbuddy
Subcategory 3: Friend
There is never any ambiguity here. If I fuck you right away (first, second or third date) then you're automatically relegated to subcategory 2. Date / meal ticket / fuckbuddy. My current boyfriend and I waited 4-5 weeks before we did the deed. Amazing, eh.
My point to all of this is: Maybe all the women you are dating either consider you unfuckabl. OR maybe they only see you as a friend. OR maybe they see you as marriage material and are holding out; that might be a stretch though.
If you are not getting women it is probably because your are not an attractive prospect!
The top things I look for in a guy are:
1. Confidence - Is he at least confident enough to ask me out? I don't have time for shy guys. If you can't ask me out then I'm not interested. I'm not a mind reader.
2. Solvency - Amil said it best in that Jay-Z song, Can I Get a Fuck You:
You ain't gotta be rich but FUCK THAT
How we gonna get around your BUS PASS
Fo' I put this pussy on your mustache
Yes, like any woman I would love a rich guy, who wouldn't? Being rich isn't a prerequisite for dating me. I'm a realist. I know that the really rich guys are gonna go for the chicks who are hotter than me. I want to be with a guy who is at minimum solvent. Owning property is a plus- not a requirement. I want to be with someone who will splurge and take me out occasionally. Remember my boyfriend Pete- the one who disappeared on me. He was so skint and cheap that he only spent £15 a week on food. He would never buy me a drink at a bar because I earned more money than him. Don't follow that example.
3. Looks - You have to be attractive. If you're not physically attractive then you have to be either insanely rich or a celebrity. Somehow, in the game of love good looks is not required for celebs and rich people. They live by a different set of rules. I don't understand it, it just works that way.
4. Virility- There is something amazingly exciting about a guy so virile that I can smell the sweat and cum dripping from him.
Do you have the confidence, solvency looks and virility? It's hard to figure out without having met you. I fear that I may be getting out of my depth answering your question so I'm gonna point you in the direction of
Doc Lov He's got a something called, "
The System" which is supposed to be fantastic at picking up women.
How about you try it out and let us know how it works for you?
Good Luck,
Anjelika
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