Wednesday, February 03, 2010

The Sexual Green Light - Going Bareback

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It's February again and just as luck would have it looks like I'm not going to have a boyfriend on Valentine's day -- again.  Just once in my life I'd like to be with someone who loves me on that day.

Besides my moping about V-day, I am in a relatively good place.  For the time being I've decided that I don't want a boyfriend.  I just want to have sex.  I don't want any complications.  I don't want to date.  I just want to feel a cock inside me.  Is that too slutty to say?

One big advantage of having a boyfriend is the safe sex component. I liked that my ex-boyfriend and I both got tested.  I liked having that sexual green light.

I really get off on unprotected sex.  I think bareback sex is hot!  That being said I only want to do it with someone who is 100% safe.  This is where the big dilemma starts as a single person.  In an ideal situation I would go out and meet a guy.  I'd go back to his place or he'd come back to mine and we'd have lots of bareback sex.  He would cum inside me -- which I love, love, love, and that would be the end of it. Maybe I'd see him again, maybe I wouldn't.  But in this time of sexual diseases, that is SO not a good idea.

Even when you ask a guy if he's been tested sometimes they lie.  Read my entry on Herpes and the Craig's List Liars. So I guess what I want is to have sex with a guy who has been tested and can show his results.  I don't, at this point want a relationship. I want the ideal fuck-buddy scenario.

Maybe that's how I should spend Valentine's day-- fucking my new fuck buddy?

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6 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love your writing. I follow you on Twitter. Darling, you deserve more. More fun, more happiness, more fulfillment, not to mnetion sex that drives you insane without the chance of killing you.

I'm over in Sunny California, San Francisco is a very sexy city. Where there are lots of gorgeous women who want mostly sex from a wealthy good looking english straight guy...

Maddening that what I really want is a hot English girl.

7:54 AM  
Anonymous Lance said...

I hate sex with condoms... the whole process of putting one on ruins any spontaneous shagging.
*sigh*

1:18 PM  
Blogger 25champ said...

I feel u sis. Bareback is great with that ideal person, but unfortunately things have changed.

5:02 PM  
Blogger Erica said...

Hey Babe,

One thing you've got to keep in mind about barebacking is that if someone is newly infected with HIV, their test results can still stay negative for about 3 months. That means that even if your hot-ass brand new lover goes with you to get tested, s/he'd need to not have unprotected sex for three months after that AND get tested again at the 3 month mark before you'd really be safe to go at it sans condom. Probably not gonna happen, right? Bag it before you tag it.
You could also give female condoms a try...
Hope you get some hot (and safe) lovin' for Valentine's Day!

12:21 AM  
Blogger Erica said...

Hey Babe,

One thing you've got to keep in mind about barebacking is that if someone is newly infected with HIV, their test results can still stay negative for about 3 months. That means that even if your hot-ass brand new lover goes with you to get tested, s/he'd need to not have unprotected sex for three months after that AND get tested again at the 3 month mark before you'd really be safe to go at it sans condom. Probably not gonna happen, right? Bag it before you tag it.
You could also give female condoms a try...
Hope you get some hot (and safe) lovin' for Valentine's Day!

12:22 AM  
Blogger marquisdgore said...

looks like your only alternative is to find some lucky married guy.

better percentages there

I'd volunteer but Virginia is too far away

5:44 AM  

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