John Mayer
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Being in a relationship does a lot of things. 1. I believe it keeps you healthy. Case and point. Merely weeks after my break-up I have come down with a horrible cold. I'm sick and I feel like shit. Worst of all there's no one here to nurse me better. I haven't had a cold in over a year so I suspect it's a direct result of my break up.
2. It makes you lazy. Very lazy. Instead of going out it's always easier to stay in. I used to be quite the party girl-- going to bars after work, hanging out on the weekend with the girls. I was frequently out and when I wasn't out I was blogging. That all changed when I was in my last relationship. Staying in was the new going out. My ex-boyfriend was my best friend, my confidante, my video game buddy, my oral sex buddy, my drinking budding, my dog walking buddy. He was my world. Why would I even need to leave the flat, when everything we wanted was right there. Being lazy never felt so easy.
Now that I'm not in a relationship, I still feel lazy. I know I need to go out and try to meet someone. I know I need to get back out there. I still feel a lazy.
Here's a secret: Essentially, I am a lazy person, but there are things in my life that I do to combat my laziness. For instance, go to the gym. Or having a dog that requires walking 3 times per day. Whereas it looks like I'm an active person by doing these things, I'm actually obligated to do them to combat perceived laziness.
Since I announced my break-up I've had about 10 offers for sex. Most of the offers have been from from quite good-looking men. One of the offers was from a woman. Most of the offers have come from guys that read this blog.
I haven't taken up any of these offers. Why? The biggest reason is because I'm lazy. I dunno. Maybe I'm not really THAT horny. When I'm über horny I go out of my way to find a guy to fuck. Maybe I just need to get out of this laziness funk. I dunno. I don't know if I want to get comfortable shagging someone new.
Last month John Mayer said in a Rolling Stone interview, “All I want to do now is fuck the girls I’ve already fucked, because I can’t fathom explaining myself to somebody who can’t believe I’d be interested in them,” he says. “I’m too freaked out to meet anybody else.”
Without taking on the egotistical rock-n-roll God complex, that's sort of, exactly how I feel right now.
2. It makes you lazy. Very lazy. Instead of going out it's always easier to stay in. I used to be quite the party girl-- going to bars after work, hanging out on the weekend with the girls. I was frequently out and when I wasn't out I was blogging. That all changed when I was in my last relationship. Staying in was the new going out. My ex-boyfriend was my best friend, my confidante, my video game buddy, my oral sex buddy, my drinking budding, my dog walking buddy. He was my world. Why would I even need to leave the flat, when everything we wanted was right there. Being lazy never felt so easy.
Now that I'm not in a relationship, I still feel lazy. I know I need to go out and try to meet someone. I know I need to get back out there. I still feel a lazy.
Here's a secret: Essentially, I am a lazy person, but there are things in my life that I do to combat my laziness. For instance, go to the gym. Or having a dog that requires walking 3 times per day. Whereas it looks like I'm an active person by doing these things, I'm actually obligated to do them to combat perceived laziness.
Since I announced my break-up I've had about 10 offers for sex. Most of the offers have been from from quite good-looking men. One of the offers was from a woman. Most of the offers have come from guys that read this blog.
I haven't taken up any of these offers. Why? The biggest reason is because I'm lazy. I dunno. Maybe I'm not really THAT horny. When I'm über horny I go out of my way to find a guy to fuck. Maybe I just need to get out of this laziness funk. I dunno. I don't know if I want to get comfortable shagging someone new.
Last month John Mayer said in a Rolling Stone interview, “All I want to do now is fuck the girls I’ve already fucked, because I can’t fathom explaining myself to somebody who can’t believe I’d be interested in them,” he says. “I’m too freaked out to meet anybody else.”
Without taking on the egotistical rock-n-roll God complex, that's sort of, exactly how I feel right now.
Labels: being single, no sex
posted by Naive London Girl at 2/09/2010 10:05:00 AM
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2 Comments:
I think you need time to yourself so the perceived laziness could be a blessing in disguise. Also think of the cold as a way of your body purging the toxins from your relationship. Or a complete coincidence. Also a lot of men are willing to fuck anything so i'm surprised you've only had ten requests
Holla to the lazy. It's easier and more comfortable to just stay at home sometimes.
And this, from your anonymous commenter:
"Also a lot of men are willing to fuck anything..."
Perhaps it should have been worded a bit differently, because OUCH.
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