Not Getting Enough Sex
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I am so frustrated. SO FRUSTRATED. The last time I had cock was October 27th and I'm horny, really horny. I just want to be fucked hard. I want to have sex every day twice per day. I want bucket loads of cum flowing into my pussy.
So it's really, really frustrating when I am perpetually horny, but for one reason or another I can't make love with my boyfriend. I have a high sex drive. I am always up for it. I hate, hate, hate the fact that I got more cock when I was single.
And before you e-mail me and say, "I'll fuck you," please be aware that I'm not interested in you. I don't want to fuck "just anybody." Yes, if I wanted to I could cheat- but I'm SO not into that idea. The only cock I want inside me is my boyfriend's.
Making love to him feels better than it does with anyone else. I don't want anybody else. I want more of my boyfriend. I'm just not getting enough sex. I feel like I am at wit's end now.
I feel enraged and frustrated that there is always some reason why we can't make love. Tonight's excuse is food poisoning. Yes, a very valid reason. It's also eerily reminiscent of that really bad date I had with the BFE where he got food poisoning.
There is always an excuse or reason or fight. It's always something. And now I'm starting to wonder... maybe it's just me? Maybe I'm not sexy enough. Maybe he's not attracted enough to me? I dunno. I 'm now at breaking point I'm at the point where I don't care what the reason is. I just want it sorted out, immediately!
To make things worse, I'm doing some temporary work for a TV company in Aberdeenshire for the next few weeks. The money is shit and I'm going to have to say in a B&B. so I'm going to be Naive Scottish Lass for a few weeks. Tonight, effectively, is the LAST NIGHT my boyfriend and I have to make love. I leave tomorrow.
Compound that with the fact that I'm ovulating and thus SUPER horny. That's why I am upset and bitchy.
I think Morrissey once said, "The gulf of all the sex I need and the sex I receive is an ancient ocean wide." OK, not his exact words, but you get the picture.
OK, now that I've ranted, I'm off to find the vibrator.
So it's really, really frustrating when I am perpetually horny, but for one reason or another I can't make love with my boyfriend. I have a high sex drive. I am always up for it. I hate, hate, hate the fact that I got more cock when I was single.
And before you e-mail me and say, "I'll fuck you," please be aware that I'm not interested in you. I don't want to fuck "just anybody." Yes, if I wanted to I could cheat- but I'm SO not into that idea. The only cock I want inside me is my boyfriend's.
Making love to him feels better than it does with anyone else. I don't want anybody else. I want more of my boyfriend. I'm just not getting enough sex. I feel like I am at wit's end now.
I feel enraged and frustrated that there is always some reason why we can't make love. Tonight's excuse is food poisoning. Yes, a very valid reason. It's also eerily reminiscent of that really bad date I had with the BFE where he got food poisoning.
There is always an excuse or reason or fight. It's always something. And now I'm starting to wonder... maybe it's just me? Maybe I'm not sexy enough. Maybe he's not attracted enough to me? I dunno. I 'm now at breaking point I'm at the point where I don't care what the reason is. I just want it sorted out, immediately!
To make things worse, I'm doing some temporary work for a TV company in Aberdeenshire for the next few weeks. The money is shit and I'm going to have to say in a B&B. so I'm going to be Naive Scottish Lass for a few weeks. Tonight, effectively, is the LAST NIGHT my boyfriend and I have to make love. I leave tomorrow.
Compound that with the fact that I'm ovulating and thus SUPER horny. That's why I am upset and bitchy.
I think Morrissey once said, "The gulf of all the sex I need and the sex I receive is an ancient ocean wide." OK, not his exact words, but you get the picture.
OK, now that I've ranted, I'm off to find the vibrator.
Labels: horny, no sex, the BFE, vibrators
posted by Naive London Girl at 11/22/2009 03:18:00 AM
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11 Comments:
Sounds like you need a man with a bigger drive. I dunnoo what to say except that.
Sweeti dont think its not because your not attractive enough, if he thought that he wouldnt be with you in the first place.
But his reasons for the lack of sex baffles me. You are completely right when you said sex feels better with him, well not necissarily him, but with someone you really care about and love.
I have no clue what to advise you but I wish you the best of luck fixing this problem
Finding a partner with a matching sex drive can be very difficult. I've been in a couple of relationships where I've wanted more than the girl or she has wanted more than me, yes lads it can happen. However in your case I don't think matching sex drives is the issue. Why - because I don't know any guys who would sleep with their girlfriend and not want sex in almost a month. Which makes me think there is another reason. I'm not going to even suggest what that might be, however I will say this and it might sound obvious, Talk to him about it, tell him you need more. The best thing that can happen, you'll work it out. The worse thing , you guys will split up and you'll be unhappy for a while, then you'll find someone else.
The good thing about sex is thats its all in the head anyway, so you can always do a spot of DIY.
Good luck - and consider this - living with a sex drive is not the worst thing that can happen, although it might make things difficult for those around you.
Frommars68 (Twitter)
Sounds to me that you need to communicate your needs and his needs.
Maybe, he is stress about some issues, work maybe, family stuff....could be endless
Its great that you are a highly sexual women. Im sure he is aware of the great trait you have.
Just talk to him
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It's a pretty touchy subject and it's one that need talking about. I know a couple in the similar situation. Only she is avoiding sex because he has one speed, slammin' hard and fast. She likes it a little slower, not to mentionthat she finds it painful. She tried talking to him but he gets pissed off. No conversation = no relationship, as far as I'm concerned. No guy likes to hear that his performance isn't up to scratch but ...
You need to tell him, this is a possible relationship breaker and YOU don't want that!!
I really hope you work this out, I like seeing people in love and happy!! I've enjoyed hearing the difference in you podcasts. Good luck with this
I totally understand your situation. I had a similar experience with an ex. Aside from just being constantly horny, the rejection ends up messing with your mind. So I understand why you suddenly feel unattractive, for me it also made me feel unloved. I broke up with that ex, and there were other reasons besides the lack of sexual compatibility, but it was certainly a factor. Ultimately, I just couldn't commit myself to having sex once a week for the rest of my life. O_o
ive got something a bit like this happening at the moment (without the digestive issues) and i know what you mean, you cant help but think its somehow your fault, its a tricky one
That is the right thing to do.
Secretia
You didnt have sex with the BF for a month? That is not ok if you ask me... not that you did.
This is obviously a sex drive compatibility issue. He could have a low sex drive ( and i'm not even comparing with your high one ... a month is very long .. )
I'm sure that you feel it's you but i remember reading something about him not having an erection sometimes and he feels comfortable with it ? Well, a low sex drive is nothing to be ashamed of but it's difficult to live with someone like that ... Don't worry, it has nothing to do with you ! It's probably a good thing that you are leaving for Scotland, maybe take time to think about things ?
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