Breed Sex Part 1: They Want to Cum in You.
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Breed Sex Part 1: They Want to Cum in You.
Meet the Men Who Want to Knock You up
Of all the subjects within sexuality that I’ve researched; Breed sex AKA Pregnancy Risk Sex has to be the single most fascinating yet morally dubious of them all. There are so many facets to this topic that one article cannot do it justice. This is the first part of a three-part series.
What is Breed Sex?
It’s just sex. It’s heterosexual sex without contraception. It’s having sex for the purpose of procreation. It’s about purposely not using contraception so that the possibility of getting pregnant remains. No contraception is ever used. Pulling out is not an option.
Ironically, Pregnancy Risk Sex isn’t about having children. It’s not about raising children. The child-rearing part is the very last concern. Pregnancy Risk Sex is about using the risk of pregnancy to heighten the sexual experience.
As with most fetishes, the internet caters for large community of like-minded people. There are at least a half of dozen breed sex forums on the web as well as various posts on Craig’s List. For my research I went undercover in the community as a woman wanting to try out breed sex.
Within the breed sex community when a woman announces that she’s ready to ‘breed’ she receives a substantial amount of male attention. Certainly was the case with me. After posting my, “London girl wants breed sex” ad I had received nearly 100 messages. It was bizarre to think that there were that many men in the world who want to knock me up. It made me think that if I legitimately wanted to have a baby on my own I’d never have to go to a sperm bank.
To say the least I received some interesting replies from men wanting to make babies with me.
Who’s into it?
You’ll find that this is a fetish that both men and women actively engage in. Not surprisingly there are far more men in the scene than women. Generally, the men can be divided into four categories: The Altruists, the Clockbeaters, the Egotists and the Bump lovers.
The Altruists.
These are probably the most unselfish of men from the breed sex community. They derive their joy from giving the gift of life to childless couples or individuals. Their desire to bring kids into the world is so strong that they are willing to forgo the old fashion way of baby making and go for artificial insemination. What’s good about these men? Their hearts are in the right place. What’s not good? Essentially they are low rent sperm donors. Don’t expect any further relationship once the baby is born.
The Clockbeaters.
These guys so hastily want to have kids. I suspect this is because they feel that their biological clocks are running out soon. They are willing to traverse oceans and continents and even relocate in order to find a woman to do this wait. An unfortunate thing about these men is that they come off as wholly desperate. Women can smell desperation a mile away and believe me it’s a foul stench. These guys want kids so badly that they would be willing to have breed sex with any woman. It’s hard to feel special when one of these guys chat you up. What’s good about these guys? They often want long-term relationships. They tend to be the marrying kind. What’s bad about them? All the Clockbeaters I spoke with wanted at least six kids. Part of their impregnation fantasy is to keep the woman in a constant state of pregnancy, churning out one kid after another.
The Egotists
My least favourite of the bunch, the egotists believe that their “seed” is all powerful and can easily knock up any woman. One egotist bragged to me, “I bred a 42 year woman in two months!” My very unscientific diagnosis is that these guys’ egos are way out of control. The way they view the world is through a prism of self-delusion and self-centredness. These men tend to be quite dominant. They view any woman who takes their cum as the ultimate submissive. These men want to get as many women pregnant as possible. Some of these men enjoy only impregnating other men’s wives (without the husband knowing). Some of these men actively sabotage birth control.
Some birth control sabotage tips I was given:
What’s good about these men: They are horny as hell. They have extremely high sex drives. What’s bad about them? Where do I start? These guys definitely epitomise “Love ‘em and leave ‘em.”
The Bump Lovers
These men have a fetish for pregnant women. They love the idea of planting their “seed” and watching the woman’s stomach grow and grow. They also fantasise about sucking the milk from a woman’s tit.
Are you ready to try Breed Sex?
Risk is inherent in breed sex, however, risk exposes you to the plight of sexually transmitted diseases. Having breed sex is an easy way to contract with HIV, Chlamydia, Herpes or most other STDs. Many people in the breed sex community are aware of the risk and have no problem getting themselves tested. Even if you do get the ‘all clear’ the real question is, are you ready to dad or a mum? Ultimately, is it worth the risk?
End part 1.
Next week Breed Sex Part 2: Meet the Cum Whores who want Your Baby
Meet the Men Who Want to Knock You up
“Like a good submissive little breeding slut I spread my legs wide and pulled my ass up off the bed so he could plough me hard and deep. I've never been one of those girls that can have multiple orgasms - in fact I'm often lucky if I have an orgasm at all. However, with this breeding I not only came but I came FIVE times.
“He had me up on all fours, his cock slamming into my cervix with each stroke, his cock bare, my pussy fertile, and I couldn't help myself I came as he pounded a huge load of warm sperm into my very eager womb. His cock head was nesting right up against my cervix and I could feel every squirt, every throb, and every little tremor as he pumped me full.
“He kept his cock wedged into my pussy for a few moments - pushing it in slightly and making sure his cum was nice and deep. As his cock slipped out of me, a trail of warm cum dripped down my thighs; I lay on the bed knowing it was possible he had just impregnated me.” – Breeding Female
Of all the subjects within sexuality that I’ve researched; Breed sex AKA Pregnancy Risk Sex has to be the single most fascinating yet morally dubious of them all. There are so many facets to this topic that one article cannot do it justice. This is the first part of a three-part series.
What is Breed Sex?
It’s just sex. It’s heterosexual sex without contraception. It’s having sex for the purpose of procreation. It’s about purposely not using contraception so that the possibility of getting pregnant remains. No contraception is ever used. Pulling out is not an option.
Ironically, Pregnancy Risk Sex isn’t about having children. It’s not about raising children. The child-rearing part is the very last concern. Pregnancy Risk Sex is about using the risk of pregnancy to heighten the sexual experience.
As with most fetishes, the internet caters for large community of like-minded people. There are at least a half of dozen breed sex forums on the web as well as various posts on Craig’s List. For my research I went undercover in the community as a woman wanting to try out breed sex.
Within the breed sex community when a woman announces that she’s ready to ‘breed’ she receives a substantial amount of male attention. Certainly was the case with me. After posting my, “London girl wants breed sex” ad I had received nearly 100 messages. It was bizarre to think that there were that many men in the world who want to knock me up. It made me think that if I legitimately wanted to have a baby on my own I’d never have to go to a sperm bank.
To say the least I received some interesting replies from men wanting to make babies with me.
“I'm a man who loves and craves to fill a pussy full with cum so you’re leaking my cream for days… I'd be always trying to knock u up and not just once. The joy is in sticking around not running off.”
– Breeding Man in Newcastle, UK
“I read your profile, my favourite things is to cum as deep as possible in a pussy, never want to pull out or use birth control but it’s difficult to find women who are into the same risky fun as me. I noticed your post as well, what arrangements are you looking for from the guy in question? Interracial breeding has always been a fantasy of mine also.”
- Breeding Man in Guilford, UK
“Black goddesses preg by white studs is SEXY!! Black goddesses have the natural DNA to make their breasts HUGE, to just be so amazingly sexy when preg!!! You should hit me up.”
- Breeding Man in Germany
Who’s into it?
You’ll find that this is a fetish that both men and women actively engage in. Not surprisingly there are far more men in the scene than women. Generally, the men can be divided into four categories: The Altruists, the Clockbeaters, the Egotists and the Bump lovers.
The Altruists.
These are probably the most unselfish of men from the breed sex community. They derive their joy from giving the gift of life to childless couples or individuals. Their desire to bring kids into the world is so strong that they are willing to forgo the old fashion way of baby making and go for artificial insemination. What’s good about these men? Their hearts are in the right place. What’s not good? Essentially they are low rent sperm donors. Don’t expect any further relationship once the baby is born.
The Clockbeaters.
These guys so hastily want to have kids. I suspect this is because they feel that their biological clocks are running out soon. They are willing to traverse oceans and continents and even relocate in order to find a woman to do this wait. An unfortunate thing about these men is that they come off as wholly desperate. Women can smell desperation a mile away and believe me it’s a foul stench. These guys want kids so badly that they would be willing to have breed sex with any woman. It’s hard to feel special when one of these guys chat you up. What’s good about these guys? They often want long-term relationships. They tend to be the marrying kind. What’s bad about them? All the Clockbeaters I spoke with wanted at least six kids. Part of their impregnation fantasy is to keep the woman in a constant state of pregnancy, churning out one kid after another.
The Egotists
My least favourite of the bunch, the egotists believe that their “seed” is all powerful and can easily knock up any woman. One egotist bragged to me, “I bred a 42 year woman in two months!” My very unscientific diagnosis is that these guys’ egos are way out of control. The way they view the world is through a prism of self-delusion and self-centredness. These men tend to be quite dominant. They view any woman who takes their cum as the ultimate submissive. These men want to get as many women pregnant as possible. Some of these men enjoy only impregnating other men’s wives (without the husband knowing). Some of these men actively sabotage birth control.
Some birth control sabotage tips I was given:
- Putting baby oil on a latex condom.
- Puncturing the condom. Apparently you need to put many holes in the condom, not just one.
- Slipping antibiotics into the girl’s drink; as that makes her pill less effective/ inactive.
What’s good about these men: They are horny as hell. They have extremely high sex drives. What’s bad about them? Where do I start? These guys definitely epitomise “Love ‘em and leave ‘em.”
The Bump Lovers
These men have a fetish for pregnant women. They love the idea of planting their “seed” and watching the woman’s stomach grow and grow. They also fantasise about sucking the milk from a woman’s tit.
“I WANNA PUT A BABY INSIDE YOU
I've always found pregnant women attractive, and fantasized about putting a baby inside a willing partner.
I wanna start by giving you a back massage, then work my way down, then slowly take off your little panties and cuddle up behind you with the tip of my dick in at the opening of you vagina, and I'm going to massage your naughty parts and talk dirty until you beg me to put it in you.
Then I'm going to slip it all the way in so the tip of my penis is touching your uterus, and then I'm going to get on top and start going wild on you, until you start to orgasm, then I'm going to press my body close to yours with my dick in as far as it can go and shoot my load all over your inside.”
– Breeding Male USA
Are you ready to try Breed Sex?
Risk is inherent in breed sex, however, risk exposes you to the plight of sexually transmitted diseases. Having breed sex is an easy way to contract with HIV, Chlamydia, Herpes or most other STDs. Many people in the breed sex community are aware of the risk and have no problem getting themselves tested. Even if you do get the ‘all clear’ the real question is, are you ready to dad or a mum? Ultimately, is it worth the risk?
End part 1.
Next week Breed Sex Part 2: Meet the Cum Whores who want Your Baby
Labels: breed sex, pregnancy, pregnancy risk sex, raising kids, STD, STI
posted by Naive London Girl at 6/17/2009 03:19:00 AM
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i dont know about breed sex.but i do have sex without condoms.my partner is always on the pill.to cum together inside her is wonderful.oral lovers know what i mean.
baby makers..not for me.
cum inside me is what i want to hear
Is there a high abortion rate for the women? Is the thrill risking getting pregnant and then having an abortion so they can start again?
Do I have to wait to the next post to get the exciting answer?
This is a very interesting take on it. I have found the emotional experience is much more intense when one knows that the intention of the sex is get pregnant. The very thought of the commitment while in the act should bond lovers together very closely. I don't have any kids myself but have been in situations where the decision had been made to make the commitment. It would be interesting to hear from parents about how different the sex was when they were trying for a child to when they were not.
Within the community there are some people who have an "abortion fetish." Will go into that in Part 2. Equally there are people in the community who are opposed to abortion.
From my research, it's the women who want to get pregnant more so than the men.
Breed Sex? Give me a fucking break! What self-respecting perv wants to be pregnant? What next? You gonna tell me that wanking is a fetish?
I'd never even thought about it...I just figured if you wanted kids you had sex with no protection...end of story! It never occurred to me that people might take the risk deliberately.
Hell No! LOL
Looking forward to the next part now.
What a FASCINATING post. I'll admit, the bareback/breeding thing is very sexy - but only in the realm of sexual fantasy, I can't believe people do it for real!
But I guess it's the same as the 'bugcatchers' in the gay community, who bareback with HIV positive men because they get a thrill from exposing themselves to disease.
I Find this concept really disturbing. Do you not understand "getting pregnant" and having a "baby" is not where it ends - babies are real people, who need a family and environment to grow up in, as parents it falls upon us to shape their minds and teach them about the world, they want to know their parentage, and that both parents wanted and love them equally.
People who haven't had children don't seem to understand this.
People should stop being so bloody selfish, and think of the poor children they are bringing into the world that are likely to be screwed up for the rest of their lifes, as a result of this behaviour.
To Anonymous (7:28) I agree with many of your points. I'm reporting on the fact that this sort of thing exists in society whether it be right or wrong.
I'll leave it up to individuals to decide what is right for them.
Fascinating stuff, truly.
While even the idea of pregnancy in real life makes me want to run for the hills, I will admit that I love reading non-consent/reluctance erotica with an emphasis on breeding . . . I guess it's an extension of control and dominance.
I get the Bump Lovers and the Egotists, and maybe even the Clockbeaters, but the Altruists are unexpected. Are they really motivated by a fetish desire?
This may be of research interest to you:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Australian-marry-preg/
My goal is to live in Australia permanently -- this includes obtaining citizenship and having children. I made the decision to migrate in 1992 but stuff have got in the way.
I have a University degree (1998-2003, due to a change from an Engineering / Physics degree path to other degree type). I am self employed and living in Puget Sound (Seattle), but a Canadian Xpat.
America is overpopulated (by ~200 Million people), and has ceased being a superpower. The US is a train wreck about to happen, overpopulation and finance system issues not withstanding.
I have always faced discrimination here based on my national origin (in law and government regulation, as well as by the general populous). There is no future for me here.
If you don't meet the proper racial stereotype requirements in the USA -- Americans will devote their entire life to destroying you.
Currently, each US resident is in debt to the US Federal Government to about ~175,000 USD (calc: 53 Trillion/304 Million).
Note: The "Working population" debt number is larger (+25%, baseline)
Economists are saying that the US will hyperinflate its money supply to get out of this debt crisis. This will destroy the assets of foreign and domestic investors. The USD will be totally worthless.
I don't want to end up trapped here for the term of my natural life.
Let is be said that, barring all other circumstances: universally there is a $100,000 barrier for skilled migrants for Australia, Canada and NZ.
I can't take advantage of the Trans-Tazman Free Trade Agreement (FTA).
The FTA helps Kiwis migrate to Australia. One hundred twenty Kiwis migrate to Australia each day, according to the Mid-2008 NZ Government's Net Migration stats.
THAT SAID:
I have ZERO Australian relatives -- but biology can fix that.
Interesting.
But I think you missed a group of people in here - you don't really need to have sex with a stranger for this. Doing so with your significant other can provide the same sense of risk. I've done it - twice, I believe. It does intensify things but the worry afterward was never worth it.
Hi There Anjelika,
I found your blog off a google search for "risk of pregnancy fetish". I've read a few of your posts (not all on this topic) and you've got some good stuff here.
I'm a rather kinky fellow, and this kink is one that was harder for me to figure out than my others. I don’t fight my kinks. I just try to find ways to enjoy them. I don't feel I fall into any of the categories you describe. This is a "mirage fantasy" for me. It goes away immediately after orgasm.
I've never really wanted kids. I have high standards, and know I really can't afford kids even if I did want them. I’m 45 years old and had about 50 different sex partners and always have taken precautions. My “no kids” record is spotless.
So we have a personal taboo. And where there is a taboo, there is sexual fuel. I fantasize about being one of your irresponsible "egoists". I also fantasy about “losing control” with my girlfriend like a teenage “accident” (think Risso getting “knocked up” in the musical “Grease”). That is a play on abstinence only sex ed. Even the idea of being “captured by a deceiving man-trapper” plays with issues of power.
Look at how many pregnancies “just happen”. What are these people thinking? Sure they are usually “shit-faced” when “it happens”. But we know what often happens when people get drunk and horny. Failing to take precautions in advance and playing dumb afterwards is an old-school country con job.
Then there is voyeuristic finger-wagging at knocked-up young celebrities like Jamie Lyn Spears. Some of it is sincere and comes from people who indulge in celebrity gossip. But much of it from ironic, kitschy, trolling, celebrity fag-hags like Perez Hilton and Ted Casablanca. So there you have taboo and mock-taboo.
And then there is the “Wascilla Factor”. That’s when you are so fed up with Republican B.S. that you just want to fantasize about adopting their bad behaviors and then dumping the brats on their doorstep. That would be immoral, irresponsible, and evil. Many good fantasies are like that.
Take all the big male fears and taboos, combine them and you get cuckolds (boytoys vs. marriage-material insecurity), hotwives (infidelity as femdom power play), and interracial wife breeding (add race plus class). I’m surprised no one has written more about these kinks.
Undoubtedly, many of the posts from “women” on sites like darkcavern.com are really from guys jacking off. A few are probably from real women indulging their men. There a probably a few women out there who like to play “the game” but take care of their birth control. And I’m sure a very few who have faced up to the reality they like “catholic roulette” and are living on the edge.
I hope this both increases your understanding of this “fetish” (for lack of better term) and may prove useful to some of your readers.
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