Game On!
Game On!
OK, I'm back together with Pete, the disappearing boyfriend, sort of. We've written off last week's snafu to "mis-communication."
We've decided that we're going to "date" and not be "boyfriend and girlfriend." He says he's not going to date anyone else besides me, but says that I can see other guys if I want. He says he's not the 'jealous type.' But maybe I want the jealous type?
So should I see other guys? It's like getting a free gym membership when you already have one. Should you explore the other gym just because you can?
Pete says that he still considers me his girlfriend. He says that I can consider him my boyfriend, but I can see other guys. So either this is really exciting for me, or really strange.
We spent last weekend together. It was fun. Pete finally got over his condom issue. We had sex 5 times on Saturday. His recovery time after he comes is 10 minutes. Brilliant!
Even though the sex was good, I didn't feel the fireworks that I felt when I was going out with the BFE. Don't get me wrong, Pete has the skills and yes it's good, very good, but it's not GREAT.
Am I settling for "Good"? Will the "Great" come? If I don't feel it now will I ever feel it?
OK, I'm back together with Pete, the disappearing boyfriend, sort of. We've written off last week's snafu to "mis-communication."
We've decided that we're going to "date" and not be "boyfriend and girlfriend." He says he's not going to date anyone else besides me, but says that I can see other guys if I want. He says he's not the 'jealous type.' But maybe I want the jealous type?
So should I see other guys? It's like getting a free gym membership when you already have one. Should you explore the other gym just because you can?
Pete says that he still considers me his girlfriend. He says that I can consider him my boyfriend, but I can see other guys. So either this is really exciting for me, or really strange.
We spent last weekend together. It was fun. Pete finally got over his condom issue. We had sex 5 times on Saturday. His recovery time after he comes is 10 minutes. Brilliant!
Even though the sex was good, I didn't feel the fireworks that I felt when I was going out with the BFE. Don't get me wrong, Pete has the skills and yes it's good, very good, but it's not GREAT.
Am I settling for "Good"? Will the "Great" come? If I don't feel it now will I ever feel it?
Labels: boyfriend disappeared, the BFE
posted by Naive London Girl at 11/21/2008 09:10:00 AM
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Hmm..I think it's weird that he's so forthcoming that you can date other guys but he doesn't want to date other girls. WTF? That's too weird in my opinion. As for the sex, sometimes it can get really great the more you have it. Maybe that's all it will take.
Something seems strange. If I were you I would keep my options very open. If someone asks you out and you like what you see, do it. I could be wrong and often am but I don't see this going anywhere, sorry.
FWIW I enjoy your posts and look forward to them.
The last time a guy said that to me, I went right ahead & did as he suggested & saw someone else & you know what? I never heard the last of it. It really dented his ego despite what he had initially said about being cool with it. I don’t mean to sound negative about what could potentially be a fantastic arrangement for you but in my limited experience these situations always seem to end in tears – usually my own. It may be that he is in fact sleeping with other women and has that very common man disease of being incapable of telling the truth or it may be that he’s not that bothered about his relationship with you or a bit of both. Keep your guard up girl!
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Seriously wouldn't consider that a good thing, If he is letting you date other people to start with you think great, and then you kinda start to feel like he doesn't really care... be careful don't get your heart broke!
Hi,
I've discovered your podcasts not long ago and now enjoy reading your blog. Very entertaining.
As for this last post : This is the definition of an " open relationship " the thing is that normally it goes both ways. Unless he's hiding the fact that he also wants to see other women and really doesn’t want to discuss it, he’s basically leaving his options open by not openly saying that you are in a « relationship » but just dating ( because it sound less restraining ? ). Be careful, because as one post said : It might be ok if HE is also doing other women but if he finds out only you are getting lucky : Surprise ! it will probably be a problem.
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