Oversexed and Still Cheating
Oversexed and Still Cheating
Regarding my previous blog entry, Are You Lustful Tonight? an anonymous reader has asked a very good question
Whats the reason when a guy is still getting sex every day (very good sex for that matter) - yet he still seeks to cheat?
1. Variety is the spice of life. Chocolate-chip cookie dough is my favorite ice cream, but if I had it EVERY DAY I'd grow a bit tired of it. Sure, it would still taste good, but I'd want to try out some other flavours. Some men feel this same way.
2. The sex isn't really that "good." Maybe the wife is happily having sex with her husband on a daily basis, but really it's not that good. Perhaps the wife thinks she's fulfilled her part as the dutiful wife with the daily blow job. This sounds like quantity is more important that quality. If the husband is cheating in this case, he's looking for a quality experience.
3. He has an overinflated ego and/or arrested emotional development and feels that he deserves the BBD. The BBD is the "Bigger Better Deal." His wife may be gorgeous, but he feels he can find something better. Whether or not he can actually do better is debatable; it's more about having the perception that what he has isn't good enough. Hell, even Christy Brinkley's husband cheated on her.
4. Temptation, lack of forethought, and know that he won't get caught. If a Brinks Armoured Truck accidently dropped 10K out of the back would you take the money or would you resist? If you knew the likelihood that you would get caught was minimal would you take the money? If you knew that the money would make you feel better instantly and you wouldn't get caught, would you take the money?
Yeah, I probably would. You probably would too. Sometimes there are very good men who slip up and cheat. I'm not excusing this, but it is a reality. Sometimes good people do morally dubious things. Men who slip up aren't horrible people; they just don't have the forethought to see how easily this situation could go wrong.
5. He's a sex addict. Some men are like that. These guys should probably never get married.
But, that’s just my opinion.
Regarding my previous blog entry, Are You Lustful Tonight? an anonymous reader has asked a very good question
Whats the reason when a guy is still getting sex every day (very good sex for that matter) - yet he still seeks to cheat?
1. Variety is the spice of life. Chocolate-chip cookie dough is my favorite ice cream, but if I had it EVERY DAY I'd grow a bit tired of it. Sure, it would still taste good, but I'd want to try out some other flavours. Some men feel this same way.
2. The sex isn't really that "good." Maybe the wife is happily having sex with her husband on a daily basis, but really it's not that good. Perhaps the wife thinks she's fulfilled her part as the dutiful wife with the daily blow job. This sounds like quantity is more important that quality. If the husband is cheating in this case, he's looking for a quality experience.
3. He has an overinflated ego and/or arrested emotional development and feels that he deserves the BBD. The BBD is the "Bigger Better Deal." His wife may be gorgeous, but he feels he can find something better. Whether or not he can actually do better is debatable; it's more about having the perception that what he has isn't good enough. Hell, even Christy Brinkley's husband cheated on her.
4. Temptation, lack of forethought, and know that he won't get caught. If a Brinks Armoured Truck accidently dropped 10K out of the back would you take the money or would you resist? If you knew the likelihood that you would get caught was minimal would you take the money? If you knew that the money would make you feel better instantly and you wouldn't get caught, would you take the money?
Yeah, I probably would. You probably would too. Sometimes there are very good men who slip up and cheat. I'm not excusing this, but it is a reality. Sometimes good people do morally dubious things. Men who slip up aren't horrible people; they just don't have the forethought to see how easily this situation could go wrong.
5. He's a sex addict. Some men are like that. These guys should probably never get married.
But, that’s just my opinion.
Labels: cheating married guys, marriage, sex, sex addiction
posted by Naive London Girl at 8/20/2008 03:04:00 PM
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I'm of the opinion that most men would cheat given opportunity and availability (and if they think they won't get caught). It's their nature.
Depends on which head is doing the thinking.
You all are dumb!
Geee in order for a guy to "cheat" there must be a woman who CHEATS!!
Next "Mother Nature" herself has a law that men NATURALLY are suppose to have as many women as possible. Don't matter if you women believe in Creation. Or if you women believe in Evolution. If you women belive in Evolution then shut the @#$% up!
1 woman can have how many babies in 3 years?
1 man can have how many babies in 3 years?
It depends on what society you live in that says it's "cheating" for a man to have more than 1 woman.
Last, we have no proof you women on this site give blowjobs to your man every day LOL!!
Ahh look at that!
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hah! So much for impartial posts, different opinions being posted.
I'm out! Enjoy being stuck at 29 and still a single woman. Enjoy being stuck at 30 and still a single woman. That biological clock is almost run out! Good ole Mother Nature ehhh??
I welcome all opinions. Even if they're crazy and misguided.
Enjoy being an idiot! ;-)
hmmmm... chris rock once said that a man was a faithful as his options. me? i've never been in a relationship before and cannot imagine wanting a 'bit on the side' for the hell of it. i admit i'm capable of cheating, but would go out there to do so. only time will tell...
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